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I met Theresa Waples, Rodney’s mother. Rodney is a school friend from the earliest days. Theresa is a remarkable lady. It’s rare to see such radiance and zest for life in an 87-year-old. Theresa had a fall in January 2017 and spent time in the hospital getting a titanium ball & socket joint, followed by a stint at Kingston Rehab where she spent several weeks getting physio and learning to care for herself. Far from being apprehensive and reclusive, she was fearless and confident and, as she said, just a little wonky on her feet.

She has a sharp mind and a vivid memory as she spoke to me of her youthful days in Royapuram, Chennai, in a conversation that lasted over 2 1/2 hours. Her bright eyes, cheerful demeanour and vibrant voice set her apart from most people her age. Her regard and consideration for others was admirable. To live alone in a two roomed apartment is a choice she made, and she clearly values living a life of dignity and living it to the full.

That visit helped me understand how a home care service can be an excellent alternative to living in a senior citizens home. Theresa speaks glowingly of the love and care she receives from the Council of Nobel Park where she lives in Australia. The Council provides citizens with an opportunity to lead an independent life.

Theresa has a string of activities that includes weekly visits to the library, walks with the walking club, hydrotherapy sessions and the movies. The seniors club also arranges visits to concerts and other places of entertainment. Cleaning of the homes and help with purchasing groceries are other services provided by the Council. A doctor visits her home on a regular basis. As Theresa says, “The government of Australia actively encourages senior citizens to lead a full and active life. What more can we ask for!! If I was in India I would just be vegetating, whereas here I am happy and look forward to each day.

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