Sex is amazing and fulfilling but only if it's with another consenting adult who respects you and your sexuality ! Everyone has different libidos , sexual preferences and boundaries . And in order for it to be a pleasurable experience for both parties , you and your partner must feel comfortable with each other . However , that can only happen if they check out this green flags list ;

1 They respect your boundaries - Everyone has boundaries when it comes to sexual stuff . It's a massive green flag if your partner fully respects them and never forces you to do something you're not comfortable with .

2 Consent is an ongoing process - Just because you consent to one thing doesn't mean you have consented to everything in bed . A good partner does constant check-ins to see if you're comfortable with what's going on .

3 They don't shy away from using protection - Protection can keep you safe from unwanted pregnancies and even STIs . If they are readily willing to use protection to safeguard both your health and theirs , then it's a good sign !

4 Your pleasure is prioritised - Meeting your needs in bed is just as important as your partner's pleasure . A good partner fully believes in this sentiment and will always prioritize your pleasure equally , if not more !

Have other sexual green flags in mind ? Tell me in notes below !