Sex is so sexualised that when the real sex happens there is nothing sexy about it. I mean I am not saying that it isn’t sexy but is it really that sexy?

I mean sex is cool but have you ever had an orgasm? Or does that word hurt you?

Or do you often get asked by a man have you cum? And your answer is always a BIG NO.

According to data only 50% of women can orgasm whereas more than 90% of men usually experience orgasm through intercourse.

How unfair is that? Not even 50% of women can’t orgasm and more than 90% of men can witness this feeling.

No wonder life is tough for women.

I like having conversations regarding female orgasms with my friends. And what’s sad is I am not sure why so many people are hesitant to talk about it. I often share posts on social media about orgasms and often get asked by people, have you never had one? Then why do you talk about it so much?

Well, I can't even discuss it or try to share the plight of my fellow ladies. 😅

But thank God I got the best of friends. I talk to them about orgasms and sex so often and try to have healthy debate and discussions.

What’s really bizarre and sad is that my best friend never ever had an orgasm ever in her life. Well, yes, never, never with a man though. But gladly she had a mini friend a vibrator which has always helped her sail through.

Guess what the best part was it looked like lipstick, a lipstick vibrator, no man seeing that could have ever figured out that it was a vibrator.

But no wonder women leaving immediately after sex is not weird anymore. She is running away to her home, maybe using her finger or maybe her vibrator where she can peacefully have her happy ending.

But sometimes I wonder what men are not doing right.

What do you think they are not doing right? Share your Orgasm stories and your views about the same