Heard about - Anyone who compete with their friends to 'lose' their 'v-spot' or have their first kiss first ?? Have you ever pushed yourself to try something sexual because you thought you were boring because your sex life wasn't 'crazy' and wild' ? Or felt weird because you haven it had sex yet ? like you're too old to still be a 'virgin' or have little sexual experience ?

Guys Come on , you don't have to compare , keep up or impress people with your sex life ! We even compete with ourselves ! we feel bad when we had more sex last month , and give ourselves a hard time when we're not feeling in the mood like we used to .

But your sex life is not a judgement on how cool , interesting or desirable you are . The reality is that we all want something different , sex is probably one of the most unique and individual things we do , so stay true to what feels good for you . And don't feel bad if you don't have as much sex as your friend etc . - it's quality over quantity !

So before you push yourself to go on more tinder dates just to have a wild story to tell your friends , remember that good sex is the sex you want , not the sex you pressure yourself into having . So if you don't feel like it , please don't do !