Post baby sex can often take some time getting back in to. That being said, whilst you are acclimatising you should absolutely be enjoying the fruits of that labour! Here are top tips for getting back to orgasms post birth;

1 Don't go straight for penetration - Start with other methods of sexual enjoyment. I mean we know a large percentage of woman do not orgasm from penetrative sex anyway, so get creative.

2 Don't neglect the clitoris - It has thousands of nerve endings, if your partner isn't paying it enough attention, have a word.

3 Post birth can result in vaginal dryness sometimes, so just get the lube and use it. Trust me, it will be worth it.

4 Focus on foreplay - Kiss, cuddle, touch, explore before you even get down to the deed. This is so important to make you feel safe, secure and comfortable.

5 Take turns - It isn't all about one party. It takes two, as they say. So take turns on communicating and having fun.

6 Do It Yourself - You know what they say, if you want something done right...... jokes. But really, best way to get back to figuring out if you are ready is to test the waters yourself. What feels ok? What doesn't?

Thank me later 👋