Integrity Score 2005
Although this is a very well written post, I'm afraid that most of the incels on the internet actually believe this to be the reason of their celibacy.
Buddy we also have condoms. All u need is safe sex, then u won't have to do abortions either.
The bigger problem is Rape
As human beings, we have been blessed with both the power of intelligence and the gift of choice. This has enabled us to create tools that give us dominion over the earth and other creatures. But if not used properly, they can also lead to our mutual destruction. We have seen this story repeat itself over and over again, from the Tower of Babel, to the mistaken assumption that prompts some to choose abortions over the sanctity of life.
The so-called sexual revolution was brought to us by thetechnology that enabled us to seemingly forestall the results of sex thorough birth control, or to erase the responsibility created by sex through the abomination of abortion. It supposedly freed women to seek professional careers, and cheapened the transaction cost of casual relationships. It freed men to opt out of family formation while doing their own thing. So-called ‘free love’ is never in fact free. The true cost of love and intimacy is commitment and faithfulness. These are enduring principles, unchanged by any artifice man can possibly engineer.
The truth is, no such bargain could ever be struck. In reality, pleasure-seeking behaviors like sex outside of the bonds of marriage and abortion, work to thwart the creative process. These behaviors create the mentality that one should have sex without being spiritually, emotionally and economically prepared to manage the creative force that sex invites and often demands. Our success here on earth comes from using the creative power of God to manifest iterative creations with the gifts of intelligence and artistry. We tend to pollute this connection when we diverge from pursuing our God-given purpose.
Only when we align pleasure with purpose can we achieve true joy. Self-discipline and living in accord with the laws of God is the only path to freedom in this life and in the next. This is the most powerful spiritual technology known to man.