The clitoris is located near the top of the vulva and people can have varying sizes of clitoral head. The clit is just like the penis it has a shaft, a foreskin', it also gets larger and harder during arousal.

The clit is more easily pleasured than the vagina many people with vaginas struggle to experience pleasure from vaginal stimulation alone, and it's nothing to do with you or them, so aim for the clit first and go from there. Not stimulating the clit is like not stimulating the penis, it's possible to cum, out it makes it a lot harder.

Every clitoris is different Some are larger, some are smaller. Some are very sensitive and some need it harder, so ask your partner what they like instead of assuming, even if your last partner loved what you did, everyone experiences pleasure differently. The clit is much larger... inside the body than the external part and can be stimulated from inside the vagina too by aiming for the top wall of the vagina. This area is called the g-zone.

Enjoy and thank me later 👋