Ask a woman what would you want, a man or a hand? There are high chances she'll choose the latter because at least orgasms will be guaranteed.

But that will be hurtful for a man and his fragile ego and he will certainly have questions and feel useless about his existence.

"Although the clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings it still isn't as sensitive as a man's ego."

And they're still not able to understand what a woman really wants?

All she wants is you to give her an orgasm and not neglect her clitoris, and somehow even if you are able to find it don't strum her clit like a guitar.

So once a  guy friend of mine asked, "What is this hue and cry of women about finding the clit? I mean what's the big deal?

Obviously, it is a big deal, the clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman's body that can help her achieve the greatest orgasm of her life.

It's like a magic button that if you press it, you both will experience the magic.

I mean I did say to press the button but don’t press it hard mindlessly expecting magic. You might end up hurting her if you do so.

But the clit is your bait, use it wisely.

The best way is by just asking her what she wants.

Communication is the key to Orgasm and also to finding her clit.

Just like Penis is an integral part of a man for sex similarly the clitoris is for women. Although sex and women have largely been conceptual with only producing babies, the concept of female pleasure has been pretty flawed.

It's not hidden somewhere deep within a cave. It's like a mini dick or a female dick. ( I mean the size varies from woman to woman)

The bigger it gets the better it feels.

Though it's been hard for men to find the clitoris but with practice and clear communication one can find it.

Sex should be pleasurable for both partners irrespective of gender, as everybody deserves a happy ending.

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