This is something you must understand about dating. If you haven't done any healing work, you're likely to attract people who aren't actually relationship material, because we tend to recreate the relationship dynamic we had with our parents with our romantic partners. For example, if we had parents who emotionally abandoned us, made us feel rejected and unlovable, or were simply abusive in general. We will be drawn to people who can provide us with that same experience again.

This means that healing our childhood wounds and conditionings about love, relationships, masculinity, and femininity is critical if we are to learn to be attracted to and attract mature people who are capable of a healthy relationship.