I saw some quotes saying:'A Woman is a sister, mother, daughter, wife etc'. I am not denying any of it but definitely that's not my identity. What am I? Where am I? What have I made myself of? Should I be defined by my caste, religion, surname? The financial status of my family? Keeping that all aside I thought without all that who am I? Am I proud of it?

I am a girl who changed from the most annoying person in the world to a much better version of herself.

I am proud of the values I put in life. I am proud that I choose empathy over sympathy.

I am proud that I have become less judgemental in life. I am proud of my achievements. I am proud of my skills.

I am proud of the changes I have made in my home and I have made to my friends and one that I hope I will make in the society.

I am proud that I don't give up. I am proud of my confidence roots from my self-love and not what others think of me.

I am proud that I fought for my rights and still am fighting though it's getting hard.

I am not proud of my anger issues, my mood swings, my anxiety. But I am never sorry unless I hurt someone. I am what I am. A whole package with flaws, which I am trying to improve. It might improve or maybe I will live with. Whatever it is I love myself, my body, my eyes, my height, I love everything of mine.

So take time to analyse who you are, what you want to be on this womens' day. Get motivated, do what makes you happy. As Albert Einstein said: "if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” So find who you are what you want. You are special unique in your own way. You don't need any surnames to make you complete as you, yourself is complete.

Happy Womens' Day.