1 We like it when you make noise too! We want to know how you feel!

2 It takes on average 20 minutes for a woman & someone with a vulva to orgasm, so be patient!

3 Sex is not just penetration. Often the most enjoyable parts are everything other than penetration.

4 We need to feel safe to actually experience pleasure. So wearing a condom, respecting us, and making us feel appreciated will mean more pleasurable sex for both of us.

5 Pain is not normal. Vaginas should not be super tight and/or painful during insertion. If it is, stop and do other things.

6 Remember That her orgasm is just as important as yours but don't make a big deal if she can't cum.

Thank me later 👋